HEAD ACHE!!

Have you seriously just had one of those days where you just cant win, i mean you try and try and no matter what its seriously never i mean never enough and no matter how many times you think you got it right everything turns to shit. Like you can have the perfect relationship in your eyes and that one family member can just ruin it all in the blink of an eye,or you can do exactly what everyone wants so there aren't any issues and horrible things still end up happening, or for instance the most sweetest lady in the world can have her life ruined in seconds vs a woman who is bitter and mean has everything she has ever wanted i seriously don t know when its enough but its like you put Ur all into it and people still judge you and bring you down how do you move on from that how do you keep a calm and normal well what you think is normal attitude and just live life how can you tune everything out and just focus on you and your lover? Its easy and simple if you have love and your happy with yourself everyone Else's opinion should never matter, I know sometimes you will want to scream but in the end all you need is love and it doesn't even have to be from another person as long as you love yourself that's all that should ever matter.